Thursday, April 9, 2009

Happy Easter


April 09, 2009
Swaziland, Siteki
3:55pm

It is Maundy Thursday.

I remember all the 'foot washing' services I have been to over the years. It always moved me more than i could explain, seeing the priest (usually my Dad) washing the feet of their congregation.

Throughout my life I have fought not only for tolerance, but for the celebration of all faiths and belief systems. To reap the harvest of our diverse understandings of love has always seemed to me to be part of the excitement, the joy of living.

My friends are muslim and hindu, jew and pagan, atheist and agnostic. I see no belief system as exalted. No way as the 'right' way. Merely a thousand painted ways of presenting the same universal truths.

Still the stories of Jesus' love, have always spoken deeply to my heart.

I fear that his ideals of unbounded, inclusive, universal love have been warped and tortured by small fearful minds trapped within cages of literalism and spiritual arrogance.

For me, at its core, his teachings were and always have been about deep humility and non judgement.

I see him washing the feet of the poor, the outcast, the reviled. I see him walking with leper and prostitute, thief and liar. And I think to myself "I wanna love like that."

Here in Swaziland, a day feels like a year. I ride the rollercoaster of deep despair and wild gratitude and celebration for the smallest act of kindness.

This morning before i headed out to see an old grandmother who was unable to leave her bed, I saw two Swazi women talking.

One said to the other "I know you are going through such deep sorrow CiCi (sister). I will take it all to God tonight and lay it under his cross."

Jesus is dying here in Swaziland and throughout the developing world. Covered in sores and kaposi sarcoma. He is a little girl being raped by her drunken father. Two little boys who are weeping at the freshly dug grave of their mother. He is the outcast. The forgotten. The hated and unloved.

Tommorrow is Good Friday.

We have organised a meal for 50 orphans at the Makhewu carepoint. Cooking starts at 7am. The party starts at 12.

I think there are more than enough 'religious' people in the world. Enough judgement and arrogance and exclusiveness.

I dont want to be religious. I dont even want to be a Christian.

All I want to do is take a bowl of water and wash the feet of my brother, my sister in pain.

To love them.

Not because I am 'special' or 'chosen' but because we are one.


From Siteki with love,

Maithri








41 Whispers of Hope:

Sylvia K said...

Was finally able to access your comment box, so I'll leave this here now. My dearest Maithri - once again I'm unable to access the comment box on your blogsite, so I'm emailing to tell you that I'm having difficulty typing because of the tears in my eyes. Your beautiful post is so moving, so heartbreaking all at the same time. I gave up on organized religion a long time ago and feel the same way about Jesus as a role model for how we should all view one another -- rich, poor, church goers, atheists, non believers -- but all the same. I used to tell my children as they were growing up -- their father is African American -- that people are the same everywhere regardless of race, creed or color and that we all walk upright and we all put our pants on the same way. I get so discouraged with what I see and hear and read!How can and why is there be so much hatred and anger in the world? There is no problem big or small that cannot be solved with love and an open mind and heart.

You are a gift to this world and most especially to mine.

All my love to you,

Sylvia

Anonymous said...

Maithri,

I have never commented here before, but I have been reading your blog addictively for 4 months now and you never fail to move me with your words and stories and love. There is this real love here; non judgement love, an all encompassing love, and I honestly have never quite experienced that in the world I live in. It brings me to tears almost everytime I read your blog, and you always make me want to go out and change the world. You are so incredibly special and I am so happy I found your blog.
Many wishes and love,
Marie

giggles said...

Oh, I so agree. We are all connected, and once we all realize and embrace this fact, I would expect the world would be a much different (and better) place.

Peace be with you.

(Your father is/was a priest? Mine, too! Episcopalian! Yet I struggle with that question of faith every day....)

Candie Bracci said...

Beautiful words of truth and love.
What you do is really beautiful and you are doing a good job.
I too am for respect and tolerance.It doesn't matter what we chose to believe in.We are coming from the same roots.I am not religious as well.

That picture of you surrounded by kids is amazing.

Peace and Love

Candie

sherri said...

I see Jesus the very same way- very loving, wise, compassionate, forgiving... you share many of his qualities.

God bless you and your work there.

T.Allen-Mercado said...

Maithri, how very beautiful and touching. Thanks for sharing.

Natural Moments said...

You are everyone's good friend Maithri.

You have become LOVE and share this spirit with everyone you encounter.

KarmaLennon said...

I so very much agree with you, Maithri. I was through with the institution of "Christianity" by the time I reached college due to the hypocrisy I saw all around. And then I was just nothing for awhile. Now I don't really categorize myself as any one religion. I think Jesus was a helluva guy and that more people should be like him. And I agree that it's all just different pathways. As long as you love one another and practice what you preach, I tend to think it's all good. :-) I hope you're well over there, friend. Peace.

linda said...

my dear friend, again I weep for your lovely children over there, their shining faces...I pray for them and you...your words about love and faith are so true and as Jesus resonates with you, in many ways, also with me and yet, our judgmental world has ventured far from his teachings...will it return ..ever? I don't think so but if they burn in one heart, it is the same...I see a roaring fire within your chest, dear Maithri...may you be loved and cared for and protected as well....you look happy, it says much to me of your faith...thank you for sharing you and your world with us who have been so fortunate as to find it!
xoxox and many many blessings.....

Miruh said...

Hello Maithri,

It is so moving to see you with the people of Swaziland, actually there and holding the children in your arms.

Your words are so real, because you are there doing it, not just an offering of platitudes.

Thank you dear friend for your love, your service, and your brave heart!

Genie Sea said...

Maithri, you are love.

I read your post and wept with sadness and gratitude.

May your meal tomorrow be splendid, and love bathe all the children with healing.

Blessed be :)

susan said...

What you say is true.
What you're doing is wonderful.
May we all grow up soon.

oceanyogi said...

I found your blog yesterday. Your work, your insights and the deep love you show for all beings has touched my heart. Thank you. Your work is an inspiration. Kate

Adamity_Bomb_Bomb said...

Maithri,

We're soul brothers, man. I feel the exact same way. Jesus *was* Love, unconditional Love. That's what I believe.

You nailed it when you said that religions are but interpretations of the universal truth. There is *one* Creator, in my mind.

In AA, there is a saying: "Coffee-makers make it." What the hell does that mean? Exactly. What it means, I think, is that, through the act of service towards others, we are able to overcome our own demons.... Through love and acceptance and servitude, we are able to true humanness.

Keep it up, My3. Love conquers pretty much everything. Peace.

Adamity_Bomb_Bomb said...

Happy Easter, by the way. I forgot to mention it in my earler comment. Your damned words make me forgetful. LOL

Easter, Springtime (in America)...rebirth. It is a beautiful thing. As are what you're doing. Keep up the good work, Doc. You have a hell of a lot of supporters and friends and like-minded compatriots.

Peace to you.

Adamity_Bomb_Bomb said...

One more thing--sorry I'm taking up so much binary space.

Maithri, one of the last sentences you wrote was something like not because you're "chosen," not because you're "special."

I call bullshit. You ARE special. You are VERY special. We, speaking for the world, *need* more Maithris. There is absolutely no doubt of that fact. We *need* uplifting, we *need* spirituality, we *need* to see the Golden Rule (Do unto others as you'd have done unto you) in action more. We *need* tolerance, love, unbridled enthusiasm for Life. We, as a world, *need* it. In an earlier post, you related the story of the sparrow on the road, lying with his stick legs up, facing the yawning sky. The horseman asked why and the sparrow shrugged and said something like, "It's all I can do." The point, obviously, being that the sparrow, though small and slight and alone, took it upon himself to do what he could do.

I wrote a post earlier today and in it, I jacked some words up like, "Pass along random acts of kindness."

I truly truly believe that that is what this world is missing. Love. Compassion. Kindness. Followers of the Golden Rule.

It's dudes like you who restore my faith in the boundless loving energies of Humanity.

Like I've written before: All we need is a million and two more Maithris and we'll be good.

=)

CathM said...

Bless you, Maithri. Here’s to the spirit of ‘love in action’ irrespective of religious beliefs, creed, colour, disease, political alliances, anything that divides... here’s to ‘humanity’ and all that UNITES and breeds UNDERSTANDING. Take care of you!

terri said...

What you've written here reminds me of a passage in Eli Weisel's Night. A young boy is being hanged in the concentration camp and the lightness of his little body makes his death slow and agonizing. Someone cries out, "Where is God?" And he says, "He is there...hanging on the gallows."

I'm feeling your suffering, and also the relief of everyone you touch. Peace my little brother.

Ruahines said...

Kia ora Maithri,
I have few words to write but thank you for changing the world. I have just returned from the mountains and been Connected. In Nature I feel what you write. I spent some time in a hut with a man during a storm, just he and I and we began talking. He had some fairly racist and judgemental views about indiginous cultures and I simply and quietly asked him questions and actually saw him grasp the fact he had to consider so much else along with these "beliefs". Just he and I on a stormy mountain. Kia kaha brother.
Aroha,
Robb

Sorrow said...

A most blessed Easter to you
dear one.
may your light continue to shine so brightly...

Wanda said...

My prayer has always been, "Teach me to love as Jesus loved." I fail miserably and still, it is a prayer I continue.

I love knowing that we are one. Thank you, my brother, for the part you play in our being one.

Rebecca said...

I weep at the beauty in your words. The love you give to the world is so pure and sweet. I pray I may be as giving, without conditions or strings, to those who need my kindness and help.

You inspire me more than you know.

Sheila said...

Amen Maithri.
I have little time for religion, but I have all the time in the world for God.

The meal for the orphans tomorrow will be a party for sure..! I can see by the attention you are getting from them they are happy to see you.
Happy Easter, to you and your children..
hugs
xx

Anonymous said...

Hey big brother,
We're fighting back tears not just reading through your powerful, beautiful and heartbreaking words but at the love that is coming your way from the readers of your blog. Its as if you can feel the love just by reading your words, and theirs.
I wish with all my heart I could be there with you. We miss you but we are so very proud of the work you are doing. Stay safe and God bless. WE LOVE YOU!. Happy Easter.
oxox - t la ro

kj said...

so now you are there. doing your work. i wish i could be there too. but i'm glad that i'm here. doing my work. it's the same circle.

sometimes i'm surprised i can handle the pain of others. but i can. and you too. you inspire me always. i kind of love you, you know. and if you ever really needed me to come, i would try...

xoxo

Shell said...

I'm always happy to see your posts. It like a letter from a beloved friend who is faraway.
I send you love and light, Maithri. While you wash others' feet, let someone do the same for you.

Selma said...

And that's what religion should be all about - non judgemental, humble, grateful love. I would be back in the fold in a heartbeat if that were the case. Bless you, Maithri. Your shining light heartens us all!

kylie said...

oh man.....
it's all love love love here,
how 'bout a little sex?


seriously m,
i just want you to know i'm reading you and praying for you. you are doing great
love
k

Jack K. said...

Maithri, I have been blessed once again. This posting has truly touched my heart/soul. You put my thoughts/beliefs into words much more eloquently than I ever could.

You have shown us what it means to....

Serve with integrity, care about those you serve and share the love in your heart/soul.

You are blessed, my brother, and you have blessed us. My feet, and my soul, are cleaner for it. Thank you.

skinnylittlesister said...

'I want to know a love like that' you said and you show us that with an open mind, an open heart the feet do follow...Much Peace Beautiful Maithri.

Marites said...

Happy Easter, Doc M. Your post reminded me of the visit I made with my friends at the Missionaries of Charity house yesterday. The visit there always remind me that hope and care should not come from anybody else but from ourselves. We don't wait for others to start caring but we should start it within ourselves regardless of race, color, religion, belief and etc.

My visits here in your place always remind me of the same. I do agree that there should be more Maithri in the world but I think, it'll be better if we, the very people that come here, should start in our little ways to do more and to care more.

Keep safe and may God be with you always.

gabrielle said...

beyond the edge
of waves breaking
Maithri dives
deep into the place
beyond questions
swimming with solitary seals

Reading your letters from Swaziland my heart breaks, then it soars and then it breaks all over.

A petal thinly veined falls gladly, its fragrance lingers.
"Suddenly the green appears on the trees—as if the green passed silently from one tree to another."
Annie Dillard

This life this spilling of hours that belong to no one . May love be born again and again, each moment new.

Thank you Maithri for all that you are.
May your brow be caressed by minty breezes
May your toes find time to wiggle in long silky grasses
May you be touched in kind
by all of those
you touch so very deeply.

Cyrus Rumi said...

So beautifully expressed...we are all just one community...

Have a Happy Easter brother,

Cyrus

Pam said...

The most wonderful photos Maithri, thank you. It gives me a focus point to send you thoughts of strength,care and deep appreciation.I also appreciate the blessing that gabrielle's comment above expresses - healing for the healer. I hold you in my prayers.

Maithri said...

Friends,

Your words bring tears to me,

Thank you from my heart,

With love, Maithri

Suroor said...

Happy Easter brother! You look so happy and beautiful with those beautiful children.

The butterfly is at home :)

Linda said...

Dear Maithri,

The tears are welling in my eyes. We share the same philosophy...the same beliefs.

This year, Easter season has been difficult for me to go through due to the rampant hypocrisy that seems to infect the world today. I am striving to be authentic to my beliefs. It is difficult.

I am beginning my journey into becoming a Commissioned Minister of Peace and Justice through the United Church of Christ. I have felt the call for many years. Pray for me as I begin the process. As a grandmother, I am dedicated to doing all in my power to make the world a better place. I believe this is the best way I can accomplish that quest.

As I attend Easter services this year, I will hold you close to my heart and life you and all those whose paths cross yours to the God of all, the God of Love. It will be a glorious expression of Faith.

Love and Peace...Linda

Gillian said...

This, THIS is why I just love you. You know, you are so inspiring, so tolerant. So giving. I'll bet you feel amazing at the end of one of your full days of helping people.
How lucky, these people are to be seen to by the worlds most caring doctor.
Maundy Thursday, has always had a special place in my heart. Ash Wednesday too. You know, I'm not religious or even Christian, (besides being baptized) but when I attend service to have ash marked on my forehead, I always come away grateful that Christ has touched my life.
How can I not?
xoxo
Keep up the fabbie work gorgeous!!!

i beati said...

Because you are so open , you reach more...Love to all at Easter and Passover

Dianne said...

look at you surrounded by all those beautiful children! natural genuine love shines through

Relyn said...

Sawubona, Maithri. Sawubona.