I am so excited about our new project bringing water to the people of Mambane (please see previous post). I wanted to re-post a story I shared in 2007 on this blog. It was written by my dear, amazing friend Sister Maureen McCarthy. (I will leave the old comments as they are ;) )
I think she underscores with great eloquence just how important a clean water source truly is, and puts our new project into context. Ok, I'm off to talk to a man about drilling! ;)
Much Love, Maithri
The following is reprinted with Permission of Sister Maureen McCarthy (Good Shepherd Hospital, Swaziland) copyright 2006
Tiny Philiswa Maziya is a patient on the Pediatric Ward at Good Shepherd Hospital. Philiswa was born 3 months ago weighing a little over seven pounds. Since that time both her parent have died of AIDS and she has been chronically ill. A loving and attentive Gogo (grandmother) now cares for her, a not uncommon experience in a country where 56% of women in the 25-29 year age group are HIV+. Gogo Maziya and her family are part of the 77% rural based population in Swaziland depending on rivers and unprotected wells as the main source of household water, the cause of Philiswa’s chronic and increasingly life-threatening illness.

Because breast milk is not available to her, Philiswa has been fed from unsterilized bottles, using milk powder, which has been over diluted with unsafe water. She has had diarrhea for many days. On Feb.13 she is admitted with severe malnutrition, wasting and dehydration, weighing 4.8 pounds, a significant drop from her birth weight. Children under four years of age must have a caretaker with them at all times, so Gogo Maziya must now leave the rest of the family to attend to Philiswa in the hospital. An IV drip is inserted to replace needed fluids, and because the baby is so weak that she cannot feed adequately on her own, a feeding tube is placed. Gogo Maziya learns to measure the milk mixture into a clean cup and dilute it with boiled water. Using a clean syringe she carefully inserts the milk with added micronutrients through the feeding tube in the hopes of coaxing this little one back to health. Gogo has learned to do this from Dr. Joyce Mareverwa, a pediatrician from Zimbabwe. Before Dr. Joyce came, GSH had no pediatrician. Since her arrival she has filled the pediatric ward with critically ill children – TB, malaria, HIV/AIDS, wasting and malnutrition. Because she is African herself, Dr.. Joyce knows well these diseases. She has gained the affection of her young patients and the confidence of their caretakers.
Dr. Joyce nurtures and nourishes many of these children back to life with her heart as much as with her medical knowledge. Now she turns her attention to Philiswa and the difficult work of saving her life.

In Swaziland, only 33% of the rural population has access to a clean water supply. This lack of potable water is the chief cause of the high rate of infant mortality in the country from diarrhea, malnutrition and infectious diseases. Gogo Maziya and her family are part of this statistic. They live in a homestead in the Makehewu Community, an area not far from the hospital. There are over 800 households there, each family living in a one room, thatched roof house, without electricity or running water. There is only one water source for the community, which must serve them for bathing, cooking, drinking, laundry and crop irrigation. Women and girls spend an inordinate amount of time fetching water, often walking 3-5 miles, collecting it in large containers, which are then transported home in wheelbarrows or carried on their heads. It is from this water source that Philiswa was fed

Every year 1.8 million people die from diarrheal diseases, 90% of them children under the age of 5. I begin to worry for Philiswa. She has done well the first 5 days after admission, raising her weight from 2.2 to 2.8 kilograms. On Feb. 19, day 6 of admission, however, she has started having diarrhea again and has begun to lose weight. Despite the feeding and medication, the diarrhea continues.
The next day, Feb. 21, I am shocked at the rapid change in her little body. . She is now severely dehydrated, clearly in distress. The soft spot on the top of her head is sunken in from lack of fluid, and her little heart is racing madly in an attempt to meet the demands of her stressed body. Gogo Maziya does her best to comfort Philiswa, but she too is feeling the urgency of the situation and her concern is evident.On Feb. 22, as I make my daily visit, I see Gogo gently rocking the fragile little body in her arms. The feeding tube has been removed from her nose and the IV drip from her tiny arm. For the first time she looks like just a baby. And I realize that even Dr. Joyce, with her medical magic and caring heart, could not keep Philiswa from becoming one of the 1.8 million lost to this preventable disease.
I have read that it would take the equivalent of 1% of the world’s military expenditure to provide safe water and decent sanitation facilities for all human beings. How do we measure a life?
I sit on the bed with Gogo Maziya for a while, not saying much, our shoulders touching. She asks me if she can have some of the photos I’ve taken of Philiswa, and I say yes, I will send them to her. Her grief is deep but restrained. She is a strong woman. She has buried her children; now she will bury her grandchildren.
I look at the still, small body, still swathed in blankets and words of Isaiah, which I happened upon, come to mind:
In my pastures the poor shall eat and the needy lie down in safety.
Rest peacefully, Philiswa.
You are safe now, little one. You are safe.

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25 Whispers of Hope:
"I have read that it would take the equivalent of 1% of the world’s military expenditure to provide safe water and decent sanitation facilities for all human beings. How do we measure a life?"
How it is that the living can rest easy in this world, I will never understand.
This is the most horrible fact I've ever heard--horrible in that it is not immediately implemented.
Small wonder that God laughs at the nations and governments of the Earth. They do nothing but look to take care of their own ruling 1 or 2%. The US is the leader in this hypocritical, wasteful, selfishness. The people are mostly good, the idea we were founded on is great, our freedom is a blessing, but we have a terribly corrupt ruling body. We can elect good officials, but virtue has a hard time standing up when evil waves money in it's face and otherwise threatens it into accept it's presence as 'necessary'.
Pick up the lowest of the flock, and you do the Lords work. Blessings to you, Maithri.
Peace and love, brother.
" “I did do something. I made you.”
And the heavens have spoken, Maithri, he made you....and you'll move mountains with your words, and water will flow through the valleys. Peace be with you, as you fight for it for others.....
much love for who you are and what you do....
Maithri,
These figures are staggering, sad and heartbreaking.
My prayers go out to those who suffer. God doesn't comfort us to be comfortable, God comforts us to be comforters.
You are one of the angels you speak of. Keep flying high over the children. You lift them to greatness as they lift you the heavens of man.
Peace be with you my angel. :D
It was lovely reading this post...it is so striking with so many emotions which are all part of our life...we all hope for a better life ahead....!
Dear Eric,
You have said something so important here. When we see statistics like this, we can't help but be shocked and horrified that nothing is being done to help when its so clearly within our grasp as a global community.
How can we let innocent children die in their millions and say its just the way things are.
This is something I will never accept. And something none of us have to accept.
Since Sister Maureen wrote this story about Philiswa it has touched the lives of so many people. Stirred them to act in wonderful ways.
I wanted to post her story with Kathleens new fundraising efforts because I know that whilst we may all feel love for these children, only if we translate that love into the language of action, will they truly feel that loves embrace.
I am a complete one hundred percent supporter of everything Sister Maureen, Kathleen and Dr Joyce do for these kids. They are living saints.
Anything we can do to help, even if its writing a cheque for one dollar.
Will be a blessing, indeed it may mean the difference between life and death for a child like Philiswa.
Love and thanks my dear friend,
Maithri
Dear Singleton,
Thank you again my friend for your loving words. We need rivers of clean water to flow.
That picture you see of a woman bent over a pipe sticking out of the dirt - used to be the only source of water for 4 thousand people. Imagine sharing one tap between 4 thousand. A tap that just barely drips.
Imagine lining up for hours each day waiting your turn to fill up your tank and then walking home up to 40 kms with that on your head. Thats reality in Africa.
Only love, harnessed and put to work, will make a change.
Love and light, M
Dear Alexys,
Oh they are my angels. All of these wonderful souls.
The wonder of life is... that you can never help another without being helped yourself.
It is truly a miracle.
These beautiful children have taught me more about life than any book ive ever read or any lesson ive ever sat through...
They are joy. They are the light.
To help them is to help your angel. I dont mean that metaphorically or in a syrupy way.
Angel comes from the greek 'Angelos' - it means 'messenger'.
The miracle of all this for me is that we are each others angels. We are messengers of love to them... And they are messengers of love to us.
They teach us how to be compassionate, and to open our hearts wider, to really love without conditions or counting the cost... Which as far as im concerned is the grand purpose of this life.
My love to you friend,
Maithri
Dear Kalyan,
Thanks my friend for your love and good wishes.
Blessings and deep peace to you,
Maithri
"They teach us how to live with joy, how to love wastefully and unconditionally and how to truly open our hearts to the pain of the world."
how can i not...how can we go on with so much when they have so little..maithri..you've given me yet another avenue by which to begin to make a difference.
thankyou...i also have a wonderful idea this year for christmas..and i shall share the idea with my children this week and together we will start a new tradition..
i'll post about it when i get the children's answers..
thankyou thankyou thankyou maithri..
k:)))))
Philiswa...rest in peace little dove..your life was not wasted..
Hi Maithri...
I have no words.
Your thoughts bring up so many emotions...
The sorrow I feel for this world... the greed, glutony, pride that is rampant when these beautiful angels are left without pure water, or much needed medical attention.
Then I feel the beauty and holiness of those whose lives are dedicated to the most noble of causes... to help those in need of help. I count you among these loving souls.
And, I feel a deep desire to help... gratitude for you and others bringing the reality into our consciousness.
Ohhh so many emotions within me as the tears flow...
Blessings, gratitude, and love to you....
Jennifer
Maithri...I can't imagine....We went without water and electricity for 10 days in a row after one of the hurricanes, and you would have thought the world ended...but still we had green swimming pools to rinse in, and neighbors who had stock-piled, and finally help that made their way down the streets passing out clean bottled water and army rations....food....
this has got to change....
God bless you Maithri.....
and these babies, and grandmas....lives...spirits...souls...hearts...futures....
change has gotta come....
maithri....please visit Karma....scroll down this precious little ones blog until you reach the video......
Maithri, These words spoke most loudly to me:
"only if we translate that love into the language of action, will they truly feel that loves embrace."
I know I can afford to share with these people and it takes more than words - thank you for showing me/us how.
Much love today.
Dear Karoline,
Its human beings like you who give me hope for this world.
Make no mistake your life is powerful and the difference you're making in so many beautiful ways will resonate throughout the planet.
With love, M
Dear Jennifer,
Thanks very much for your comments and loving words.
You know sometimes people say theres no use crying over these people as theres nothing we can do for them. But i know that the tears are so important. We have to capture that depth of emotion and then harness it - turn it into loving action.
I know that is the recipe for fire.
Love, M
Dear Singleton,
The video you linked to moved me so. What a powerful message.
A change is gonna come. It is coming. It is here, in embryo, in the connection between loving hearts, just waiting to be born.
Thank you gracious friend for all you are and all that you do,
Love, M
Dear Ruby,
You have captured the intent of this post perfectly,
You inspire me!
Love, M
Dear Dr. Maithri,
The work you and your friends do is blessed. I'm so blessed to have come upon this page today. I clicked on the 'siteki with love' label and read all your posts about this amazing work.
Thank you to you all, and thank you for sharing it with us.
I will help.
Love, Cassie.
Yes, Maithri. Too many saints walk unrecognized while they live.
You, too, are as important as they. You are getting their story out to all of us.
That makes the biggest difference. There are people who can help. You will find them, you will at least spread their story.
Peace and love, brother.
This breaks my heart.
Children suffer so needlessly in this world when we hold the power to change it.
Money wasted on wars like Eric said, money that would feed these people and then some, is being poured without conscience into something that results in only more death.
You are doing such an important thing here by raising awareness to the issues in our world. Thank you for your voice Maithri.
There isn't possibly anything I could add here that your friends haven't already said. I just kept reading the comments and nodding my head yes..yes...yes.
The image of that little girl will forever stay with me.
xo
Gillian
Dear Cassie,
'I will help' - are there any more beautiful words in the English language.
Thank you!
With love, Maithri
Dear Eric,
Thanks brother, you're support means so much.
Love and peace to you, M
Dear Blue,
Thank you my friend for your kind words. I pray that these images and stories continue to shake us up. Shake us out of our quiet indifference into loving action.
I am convinced that loving acts by ordinary people are the foundation of global change.
Love and hope, Maithri
Maithri,
I will help too,
Thank you friend full of compassion,
love Alex xoxo
Maithri my dear friend, it seems these little ones can only say, "The world was silent when we died."
Please everyone, please listen. Like these wonderful, caring, generous people to whom Maithri has introduced us, let each one of us try in whatever way we can to to help the children of Swaziland. One drop in the ocean, and there is a ripple...and the ripple can increase to become a wave. Let's reach out. Let's listen. carefully, and with love.
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